Finally an Important Message Concerning One Misleading Aspect

FINALLY AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE CONCERNING ONE

MISLEADING ASPECT.

This should be remembered by both, husband and wife, that

Shaytan at times deceives you into thinking that your partner lacks

in the fulfillment of your rights or is committing such and such a sin

therefore I too should abandon the fulfilling of his rights or commit

the said sin. This notion is highly incorrect because each one of

preparing our akhirah (hereafter) and protecting ourselves from

the punishment and terrible afflictions of the hereafter and forever

stay in comfort and ease. Ruhul Ma’ani

This lifestyle can only be attained by those who are content and

pleased with whatever is granted to them by Allah I and are free

from greed and avarice, making it obvious that this can only be

attained by the people of Iman (faith) and those obedient unto the

truth. People turning against Allah I and disobeying Him cannot

attain this lifestyle despite having the means and comfort; they still

find difficulty and disgrace, because of greed they cannot even

reach the smallest aspect of contentment. They are constantly

engaged in obtaining more wealth and whenever confronted with

something against their desire, they show an immediate dislike to

the power and working of Allah I and experience great anxiety,

sometimes resulting in suicide as is being witnessed today. This

has been explicitly mentioned in the Ayah:

WA MAN A`RAˆA `AN DHIKR• FA‘INNA LAH¤ MA`•SHATAN

ˆANKAW-WA NA•SHURUH¤ YAWMAL QIY•MATI A`M•

“But whosoever turns away from My Reminder (i.e. Neither

believes in this Qur’an nor acts on its teachings.) verily, for

him is a life of hardship, and We shall raise him up blind

on the Day of Resurrection.”

Ta Ha 124

Hayatus Sahabah

Thus basic knowledge of the shariah is necessary for them (these

couples) and the creating of a bond with some Shaikh (a learned

man who correctly applies the Shariah), they should Remain

engaged in ‘llm and application so that comfort and ease can be

achieved in this life as well as eternal purity in the hereafter. May

Allah I grant us correct understanding and the ability to act

accordingly.